I am like so many other men and can freely admit that I enjoy receiving oral sex. I did write one post regarding someone who did something that really left an impression on me here. That was just one little aspect though. There is so much more. I think the things I find most pleasurable are normal among men. Naturally there will be some deviation among men, just like there is deviation among women in what they find most pleasurable. That is natural.
So what this is about is what I enjoy. I hope the descriptions are sufficient that as you read this, you really do understand and if you are a woman, do these for your man, and if a man, express this to your partner. First of all, there is no one way that just works. When I was younger and a gentle breeze was enough to get me aroused maybe. But I am quiet evolved past that point.
After a certain amount of time and interaction, there are scars on the inside as well as pleasant memories. Both of those combine to make me into something new and unique and no longer the same as I was as a teenager. The most effective way to get me truly hard, truly aroused, and able to thoroughly let go of everything but the moment is to get into my mind. This blog is not sufficient to describe all that it takes to get into my mind. But I can at least share some insight for ways to get into my mind that should be useful with others.
Be into it. Seriously. Don't treat giving a man oral sex as a favor to him. If you don't enjoy it, or you are not really into it, it will show. Treat it is as something you really do want to do. As something that arouses you, makes you wetter and hotter. Revel in the power you have over him through the attention focused mostly on one part of his body. Whatever it is that works for you, that makes you enjoy giving oral sex, then open yourself to that and let it show to the man you are sucking.
Don't be a porn star about it. Maybe that works for some guys, but not me. Porn is fun to watch, but it comes across as so fake. I don't want fake in my sex life. I think there are very few people who would ever say they want sex to be fake in some way (toys may be excluded from that statement).